Comments on: A week of explanations (a.k.a. What you’re doing wrong) http://chicagojo.net/2009/11/18/a-week-of-explanations-a-k-a-what-you%e2%80%99re-doing-wrong/ the more things change, the more they stay the same Mon, 21 Jun 2010 04:44:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Crazy daters and what went wrong « http://chicagojo.net/2009/11/18/a-week-of-explanations-a-k-a-what-you%e2%80%99re-doing-wrong/#comment-135 Crazy daters and what went wrong « Thu, 25 Feb 2010 16:59:13 +0000 http://chicagojo.net/?p=207#comment-135 [...] tips for men. After all, I’ve previously written an article that regularly gets hits on how to increase your chances of getting a response off a dating site. Now, instead of employing my suggestions to prosper in the virtual world, [...] [...] tips for men. After all, I’ve previously written an article that regularly gets hits on how to increase your chances of getting a response off a dating site. Now, instead of employing my suggestions to prosper in the virtual world, [...]

]]> By: viciousj http://chicagojo.net/2009/11/18/a-week-of-explanations-a-k-a-what-you%e2%80%99re-doing-wrong/#comment-132 viciousj Thu, 19 Nov 2009 21:20:16 +0000 http://chicagojo.net/?p=207#comment-132 While I agree with a majority of what you posted up there - it's difficult to try and come off as genuine and couth when trying to intiate contact with a pretty/interesting/smart girl you don't know... as one who was on a site like this and got maybe 1 response total (and even less when factoring in unintiated contact) - I'd say just consider yourself fortunate people actually find you interesting/attractive enough to try! I mean, you could waste time and money on one of these sites and have no one look at you... some of us are just doomed to sugar our own churros. :) Btw - the dude that sent the poem should at the very least get points for being creative and original! While I agree with a majority of what you posted up there – it’s difficult to try and come off as genuine and couth when trying to intiate contact with a pretty/interesting/smart girl you don’t know… as one who was on a site like this and got maybe 1 response total (and even less when factoring in unintiated contact) – I’d say just consider yourself fortunate people actually find you interesting/attractive enough to try!

I mean, you could waste time and money on one of these sites and have no one look at you… some of us are just doomed to sugar our own churros. :)

Btw – the dude that sent the poem should at the very least get points for being creative and original!

]]> By: dmc74 http://chicagojo.net/2009/11/18/a-week-of-explanations-a-k-a-what-you%e2%80%99re-doing-wrong/#comment-131 dmc74 Thu, 19 Nov 2009 17:43:22 +0000 http://chicagojo.net/?p=207#comment-131 Didn't I already read this blog..... your lazy. Where's the new material? Didn’t I already read this blog….. your lazy. Where’s the new material?

]]> By: tamtamarita http://chicagojo.net/2009/11/18/a-week-of-explanations-a-k-a-what-you%e2%80%99re-doing-wrong/#comment-130 tamtamarita Thu, 19 Nov 2009 15:43:17 +0000 http://chicagojo.net/?p=207#comment-130 A message at OKCupid doesn't require followup any more than a smile at the bread aisle at the grocery store. A message at OKCupid doesn’t require followup any more than a smile at the bread aisle at the grocery store.

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